Ambivalent
/æmˈbɪvələnt/
Definitions
Simultaneously experiencing opposing feelings or attitudes.
/æmˈbɪvələnt/
Having mixed feelings or contradictory ideas about something or someone.
He was ambivalent about the proposal, seeing both advantages and disadvantages.
💡 Simply: Having mixed feelings; feeling both positive and negative at the same time.
More Examples
Her ambivalent feelings toward her ex-boyfriend made it difficult to move on.
How It's Used
"She felt ambivalent about her new job; excited by the challenge but also apprehensive about the workload."
"The protagonist's ambivalent attitude towards his family created a compelling internal conflict."
From Latin *ambivalens*, present participle of *ambivalēre*, from *ambi-* "both" + *valēre* "to be strong, be worth". Originally referring to having two opposing values.
While the word has ancient roots, its modern usage gained prominence in psychology in the 20th century.
Memory tip
Think 'ambi' as in 'both' and 'valent' as in 'value' - having two opposing values.
Word Origin
"Having two opposing values or feelings"