Bother

/ˈbɒðə/

verbBeginnerVery CommonGeneral

Definitions

3 meanings
1

To cause annoyance or trouble to someone.

/ˈbɒðə/

verbnegativeBeginner
General

To cause trouble or inconvenience to someone.

The noise bothered me.

💡 Simply: To annoy or make someone upset.

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2

Please don't bother him while he's working.

How It's Used

Everyday Conversation

"Don't bother yourself with it."

Formal Communication

"I apologize if this bothers you."

2

To take the trouble to do something.

/ˈbɒðə/

verbneutralBeginner
General

To make an effort to do something.

I didn't bother to reply to his email.

💡 Simply: To try to do something.

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2

He bothered to call his mother every week.

How It's Used

Everyday Conversation

"I didn't bother to cook dinner."

Tip:Think of it as 'to make an effort'.
3

Something that causes annoyance or trouble.

/ˈbɒðə/

nounnegativeBeginner
General

Annoyance or trouble.

It's a real bother having to clean up after them.

💡 Simply: Something annoying or troublesome.

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2

Finding a parking space was a bother.

How It's Used

Everyday Conversation

"The whole thing is such a bother."

Tip:Think of it as a nuisance.

Idioms & expressions

Can't be bothered

Too lazy or unwilling to do something.

"I can't be bothered to do the dishes."

From Middle English *botheren, from Old English *botherian, probably of Celtic origin.

Historically, 'bother' had a stronger connotation of 'to trouble' or 'to worry', often used in a more formal setting.

Memory tip

Think of it as 'to bug' someone.

Base: bother
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Usage

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30%Written